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Body language

What we communicate without words: posture, face, gestures, where we stand. A parent's sigh from the stands is a message too.
Say it on court
“Your face says more than your words from the stands.”
Recommended for junior development: Red, Orange, Green, Yellow (Ages 5–8)ID: body-language

Related Development Terms

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Learning climate
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The feel of the session. A welcoming, encouraging, safe climate helps children learn faster.

Say it on court

“Mistakes are welcome here. That's how we learn.”

Care
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The coach's role in meeting each child's need to learn: helping them understand the rules, spotting their strengths and building self-esteem.

Say it on court

“Every kid leaves knowing one thing they did well.”

Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The trust-based relationship between coach and child. The coach is a teacher and role model, not just a technician.

Say it on court

“Kids learn more from who we are than from what we say.”

Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The three-way relationship around every junior. It works best when all three use the same words, share the same goals, and each keeps their own role: coach coaches, parent supports, player plays.

Say it on court

“Let's all use the same words so she hears one message.”

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Learning climate
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The feel of the session. A welcoming, encouraging, safe climate helps children learn faster.

Say it on court

“Mistakes are welcome here. That's how we learn.”

Care
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The coach's role in meeting each child's need to learn: helping them understand the rules, spotting their strengths and building self-esteem.

Say it on court

“Every kid leaves knowing one thing they did well.”

Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The trust-based relationship between coach and child. The coach is a teacher and role model, not just a technician.

Say it on court

“Kids learn more from who we are than from what we say.”

Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The three-way relationship around every junior. It works best when all three use the same words, share the same goals, and each keeps their own role: coach coaches, parent supports, player plays.

Say it on court

“Let's all use the same words so she hears one message.”

Verbal communication
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

The words we use. With children, keep it short, specific and positive.

Say it on court

“Say one thing at a time, and say what to do, not what not to do.”

Tone of voice
CoachesParents
Red (Ages 5–8)
Orange (Ages 7–10)
Green (Ages 9–12)
Yellow (Ages 11+)

How we say things: tone, volume, speed, pauses. Children often react to the tone more than the words.

Say it on court

“Same words, calmer voice.”